Thursday, October 31, 2019

Beautiful Black Women With White Soulmates

This was a joy to watch! Everyone should have a right to love freely. The people who criticize interracial dating are often either not happy in their own relationships or are racist or have biases against other people. Unfortunately as black women we allow notions from the civil rights era to prevent us from viewing interracial relationships in a positive way.Of course black men have been affected from this same past but that has not stopped them from dating white women and other non-black women. In fact black men engage in interracial dating more than 3 times as much as black women. Look it's time for black women to explore all their options in the dating world.

Friday, October 11, 2019

Chris Brown and the Men Who Think We're Ugly (How Black Men Benefit from Colorism)

Chris had no shame when he sang the lyric, "I only want to fuck the black bitches with the nice hair." I'll save the comment about calling black women bitches for another day. Yes, Mr. Chris Brown should be ashamed of himself, but unfortunately colorism is a big problem in the aftrican-american community.  And since black women seem to be the only ones suffering from this problem, especially these days because black men find a way to benefit from these relationships with "other women" for example: Kanye West and Kim Kardashian. Well the Chris and Kanye's of the world remind me of a character in my book "High Profile".  "High Profile" is secure in how he looks and is more concerned about having a so-called trophy or "snow queen/ice princess" on his arm.The problem with "High Profile" is that the relationships he forms are all about access, and what he can get out of being seen or connected with the woman that he is dating. I agree with the YouTuber, "do not stress yourself out about the people, who don't want you. In 2019, we're not stressing out about these raggedy men". She is absolutely right, because they are raggedy if they cannot recognize the beauty in black women.